Start by gathering all the ingredients. Lay them out on your counter. This step makes it easy to grab what you need as you go along.
In a small bowl, add either 1 or 2 teaspoons of gochujang, depending on your heat preference. Mix in a small amount first. It's easier to increase the spice level than to tone it down.
Next, pour in 1/4 cup of creamy mayonnaise. This adds the needed creaminess to balance the spices.
Stir in 1 teaspoon of rice vinegar and 1/2 teaspoon of fresh lime juice. These two ingredients will brighten the sauce and create a dance of flavors.
Add in 1/2 teaspoon of honey. Mix thoroughly to ensure that the sweetness is well distributed.
If you want to amp up the flavor, sprinkle in a pinch of salt and some freshly cracked black pepper. Taste as you go! Adjust according to your preference.
Take a whisk or a fork and beat the mixture until all the ingredients are well combined. It should be a beautiful, smooth sauce.
For the best flavor, let your sauce sit for at least 15 minutes. This resting period allows the flavors to meld together beautifully.